NO YOURSELF
One who knows themself,
Doesn't no themself.
Do You Even Know Yourself?
What if I told you that you don’t get what you want because you don’t really want it in the first place?
We don’t need a social distancing decree to be comfortable alone. We don’t need to wait for loved ones and friends to reach out to us first, before we affirm our love for them. Pursue your interests even if it means going all in.
What Are You Waiting For?
Waiting to eat at a restaurant you’ve been wanting to try because you don’t have someone to go with and will look like a social loser is self-inhibiting. Why are we stopping ourself from who we really are or what we really want? These are base examples, and the true life-long inhibitions run deeper, but they still operate in the exact same way. Like what we want in relationships or career. Ex: Many individuals subconsciously don’t think they deserve love and respect. These same people end up in destructive relationships, where they are constantly undermined and only receive what they want at the cost of their own happiness.
Blaming Others
We tend to think our external environment is the reason for taking away our needs, but that’s not the whole truth. Before that happens, subconsciously, we stop ourselves first. We come up with reasons we can’t have something, or oppositely dream far too big from what we are capable. So when the universe finally says NO, we throw our hands up in the air and say I TOLD YOU SO. It’s self-sabotage. Stop it. Stop telling yourself no. Someone or something else telling you no is actually just an external reaffirmation of your internal self, telling yourself no. Because YOU DECIDE what you believe in and YOU CHOOSE where to expend your energy.
Changing Your Inner Hardwiring
Once you internally change your no into yes, your inner hardwiring will change. Now your conscience will be figuring out how to make the yes possible. Every adversity will be met with conviction of overcoming it, not succumbing to it. So what are you waiting for? You deserve happiness, love, respect, prosperity, etc., and most importantly, contentment.
Create a respecting & peaceful environment with those around you. Don’t YES someone else’s NO.
Where are you telling yourself 'No'?
Let me know in the comments below!
